whathappensWHEN….

 

a friend of mine brought this up & i thought it was worth blogging about. here’s the rundown:

she’s in a relationship that shes completely committed to…BUT [& there is ALWAYS a but] she’s recently met some1 who is amazing. they talk as much as she’s able  to & they get along great. he knows she is in a serious realtionship & knows & RESPECTS his boundaries.

WHEN THIS HAPPENS…WHAT DO U DO?

this is a very sticky situation but it basically comes down to these few factors.

• is this NEW guy really as great as u think? think about it. u just met him. youve known your boyfriend way longer-sometimes seniority wins.
• are u willing to throw away everything u and your boyfriend have built for this new person?
• is that new person on the same level [or above] that your boyfriend is on emotionally, physically & everything in between [does he have his life together?]
• can this new person “replace” all the feelings and emotions u have invested into your boyfriend?

of course i could go on & on but u get the point. weighing out all the pros & cons between the two will give u your answer. solid evidence always outweighs the heart in significance. who knows? maybe that new guy is the one. but then again maybe thats just that initial giddy feeling & lust thats clouding your judgement.

hope i helped.

*got a ?—i prolly got an answer for it. just be ready to hear the truth.*

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